Jay On The Go

Millions of people still wonder why did Brad Pitt and Jennifer Aniston divorce . The question has intrigued me even more considering that Brad Pitt is so happy with Angelina Jolie and not only has chosen not to get married but has had children with her. In an earlier interview with Vanity Fair Jennifer Aniston shared some reasons for the divorce but we now have some more information. She says in an interview: "I think it's laziness. I think a good relationship is about collaboration . I think you just need to talk to each other . Say what you need. Say what you want. That way it's not threatening. You just need to say, 'This is important to me.' Don't expect your mate to read your mind...I think that's because it's just instinctual as a woman to be the caretaker of your home. Women complain that men don't do enough, but it's your own fault. You train your man to do nothing. You can't blame someone for not knowing what his or her job sh...

I am sorry to report yet another setback to cougar dating . One of my cougar idols Kim Cattrall (52) has ended her relationship with much younger dude chef Alan Wyse (32). No body knows what happened and I am assuming that it was not because of their age gap or his cheating with a girl his age. Some reports speculate that the couple just drifted apart for a variety of reasons after being together for as many as five years.

I had spoken so highly of the relationship of Jermaine Dupri and Janet Jackson because it was an example of a highly successful mature woman younger man relationship . Unfortunately, the two decided to end it and it had nothing to do with Michael Jackson's death.

What's this thing with Rachel Hunter ? She is gorgeous but can't seem to have a lifelong relationship . She first married a much older man , Rod Stewart , but that marriage ended and since then she has had no luck with hockey players. Her relationship with Sean Avery went nowhere and now Jarret Stoll has called off their wedding. Could it be that this man was too young for her ? She is 39 and he was just 27.

I was totally confounded when Lance Armstrong and Sheryl Crow broke up . I was trying to figure out what went wrong and when I heard that Sheryl Crow still loved Lance after they ended their relationship , I was confused even more. Then, Sheryl Crow adopted Wyatt Steven Crow and I suspected that we would never find out what went wrong in such a beautiful relationship . Now we have answer. The main reason for the breakup was Sheryl's desire to become a mom , as she was already 44 around their engagement . At that age, it is nearly impossible for a woman to get pregnant naturally and have a healthy baby. Yes, some women do become moms but in almost all cases they resort to IVF that may use their frozen eggs , of if that was not done, they use donor eggs . "She wanted marriage , she wanted children ; and not that I didn't want that, but I didn't want that at that time because I had just gotten out of a marriage , I'd just had kids [Luke, Grace and Bella]. ...

John Mayer is a very weird guy. He first abused Jessica Simpson when she followed him a like a pet and genuinely believed that he was in love with her . He dumped her like a used napkin. Cameron Diaz also got the wrong impression that John Mayer liked her, but thankfully, she was smart enough to realize her mistake. Then a very desperate Jennifer Aniston who has still not recovered from her divorce from Brad Pitt and that was obvious how she tried to impose herself on Vince Vaughan . I am a big supporters of cougars dating younger men but I was not very optimistic that the relationship with John Mayer will last. As expected, the relationship ended without a word of warning. Apparently no cheating is involved. "People are different, people have different chemistry," said Mayer. "I ended a relationship to be alone, because I don't want to waste somebody's time if something's not right." I am sure that Aniston will definitely appreciate this...

If you watch The Bachelor, there is so much drama that you start to imagine that their relationship will last forever. The fights, the competition, the romance , the emotions are incredible. The reality, it turns out, is somewhat different. Like most of us, they too face the same challenges in relationships . Remember how Travis Stork and Sarah Stone broke up ? Well, another Bachelor couple, the very charming officer and a gentleman Lt. Andy Baldwin and social worker Tessa Horst, have broken their engagement . I think just for the sake of the media they are saying things like "We are very much in love and committed to our relationship ." I don't buy this crap. If you are so much in love and committed to the relationship , why can't Tessa move to Hawaii ? And I am glad that they broke up , because if a partner cannot relocate, the marriage wouldn't have lasted too long. Marriages require far too many and bigger sacrifices ; this was something really smal...

Kate Hudson and Chris Robinson divorced after what what supposed to be a great relationship (she moved in with him after dating him for just three days). Nobody knows if adultery was involved, but it seems that her relationship with Owen Wilson (they acted together in "You, Me and Dupree") may have had something to do with the divorce . Within no time, the couple was in love and was everywhere. We now find out that they have split. As is often the case, no one knows what happened. Boy, these Hollywood relationships are brief.

Dating a prince ain't easy. Just look at what happened to Japanese Princess Masako, who abandoned her career as a diplomat, and has been depressed since her marriage to Crown Prince Naruhito. There are some reports that Empress Michiko was never very happy in her marriage either to Emperor Akihito. And we also know what happened to Princess Diana. So was the Queen right in intervening in the relationship of Prince William and his girlfriend Kate Middleton ? Time will tell but it seems that William himself was not very happy with the relationship . Plus, it had turned into a long distance relationship . But what about the rumors about engagement and wedding? They were all in the imagination of British tabloids. In any case, it is always sad to go through a breakup and probably even sadder when you can no longer dream of being the Queen of England.